Dictators And Happiness

What I Am Wearing

T-Shirt:(try here, here) // Short:(try here, here) // Shoe:(try here, here)

I have been thinking a lot about dictatorship and I’m not talking about the government dictatorship I’m talking about life dictators that we have in our lives and this are people so close to us they may even be our parents, siblings, or close friends to them they’re not doing anything wrong they are being our guardian angels guiding us in all things we do to make sure we’re happy and to us they are our best friends they are everything to us because they’re always there to listen and to talk how how to live life in other to be happy but that’s not given us power to make decisions on her own and be truly happy. 

We all need people who are always there to listen to guide us but by putting our whole trust in them in order to find that happiness we’re only destroying ourselves. Dictators in our lives can be great but at the same time they can be damaging if we put our whole trust in them, I was once a victim and to this day it affects me but I have come to understand that happiness comes from you and then you spread it to other people and places. 

Happiness is not something readymade. It comes from your own actions. Happiness is a choice we choose to be happy or not to be happy and the one thing I have learned that whatever brings you that happiness do not let it go hold on as hard as you can no matter how hard it may get, sometimes it easy to just give up and say I was not met to be happy, no everyone deserves to be happy it all comes down to choice. It your choice to choose to be happy and when you do that nothing or anything or anyone can stop that from happening only you have the power to stop you from being happy.

This outfit kind of speaks that you either choose to be happy or not to be happy it black and white the classical color you never go wrong with it. I choose happiness no matter what life throws at me and it’s time for me to fight for what makes me happy.